Chances are, if you have found yourself here it means that things may not be going that well for you or for someone you care about. Or perhaps, it is because you are seeking guidance about the very important subject of coercive control, domestic & sexual abuse. Either way, I am very glad you are here.

First and foremost I need you to know, whoever you are, whatever your circumstances, IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT if you are being abused. It’s not your loved one’s fault if they are being abused, even if they are choosing to stay in the relationship.

How can I know this?
I know absolutely nothing about you, dear Stranger-on-the-Internet.

I know this with 100% certainty because by definition, one cannot be abused by choice. If someone has power and control over you, you are not making your own choices. Even if it may feel like you sometimes are, you’re not.
Yes, even if you fight back.
Yes, even if you choose to stay.
Yes, even if you never press charges.
YOU are not the one in control – the person perpetrating the abuse IS.
They are responsible.
It takes a LOONG time to begin to believe that.
Maybe you’re ready to, maybe you’re not, and that’s okay.

My job isn’t to push you to do anything you are not ready to do.
My job isn’t to force you to leave your relationship.
My job isn’t to bad mouth the person you love, even if they’re hurting you.
My job isn’t to become the new decision maker in your life, my job is to help that be YOU once again.
To help put you back into the driver’s seat of your life, where you belong.

I want to help guide you through the next evolution of the person YOU WANT to be in the only life we are guaranteed.
If you believe you’re ready to explore who that person might be, contact me for a consultation or to schedule an Intake Appointment.

Email: StaciePerreault@stacieperreault.com
Phone: (508) – 257-7821